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    April 01

    [佛言]自在人生

     
    1.用奉献代替争取, 以惜福代替享福.
     
    2.自爱爱人,爱一切众生; 自救救人, 救一切众生.
     
    3.利他, 是不求果报及回馈的清净心.
     
    4.占有,奉献都是爱, 但有自利和利人的差别; 占有是自我贪取的私爱, 奉献是无私喜舍的大爱.
     
    5.道理是拿来要求自己,不是用来苛求他人.
     
    6.要有当别人垫脚石的心量, 要有成就他人的胸襟.
     
    7.做事时为多别人想一想, 犯错时多对自己看一看.
     
    8.以礼让对方来成就自我, 以尊重对方来化解敌意, 以称赞对方来增进和谐.
     
    9.放不下自己是没有智慧, 放不下他人是没有慈悲.
     
    10.与人相遇, 一声"我为你祝福!"能赢得友谊,获得平安.
     
    11.对人付出友谊, 伸出援手, 就是在散发和乐平安的光芒.
     
    12.少点口舌少是非, 多点真诚多平安.
     
    13.肯定自己的优点是自信, 了解自己的缺点是成长, 善解他人的立场是尊重.
     
    14.要把众生的幸福提起, 要把自我的成就放下.
     
    15.生命的意义在不断的学习与奉献之中, 成就了他人, 也成长了自己.
     
    16.为他人减少烦恼是慈悲, 为自己减少烦恼是智慧.
     
    17. 不要拿自己的鞋子叫别人穿, 也不要把别人的问题变成自己的问题.
     
    18.勤于照顾众人的苦难是大福报, 乐于处理大家的问题是大智慧.
     
    19.只要少闹一些无意义的情绪, 便能少制造一些不必要的烦恼.
     
    20.当我们无力帮助他人, 至少可以停止伤害别人.
     
    21.凡事要正面解读,逆向思考.
     
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    在自己的空间领地, 放一些佛的言说, 和大家一起分享净心的体会. 当烦恼的时候,或者悠闲的时候, 看上一看, 有时会觉得心神顿悟,茅塞顿开之感. 以上的21条言辞都是圣严法师的言语.
     

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    不要强迫别人, 也不要被别人强迫.
    这是我对于那句话的理解. 呵呵, 不晓得Jessie是怎么看的呢
    Apr. 2
    17后半句, 其实就是求寡欲清心, 呵呵, 佛道就是那般的远抛世俗却又无可奈何的在世俗里的一种感觉
    Apr. 2
    jessie J.wrote:
    提问:第17句的后半句是么意思啊?
    Apr. 2

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